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If
I want to consider adoption, where do I start?
If
you decide you would like to consider an adoption plan for your
child, our staff will help you to design a plan you can feel comfortable
with. Although adoption is a selfless and loving choice, it is very
difficult. Our staff will support you throughout the entire process,
including after the placement is made.
Can I choose my baby's family?
You may choose the adoptive family yourself, and may choose to meet
them personally to learn more about them.
You
may wish for the adoptive family you have selected to be present
for the birth of your child. Following the placement of your baby
with the adoptive family, contact may continue between you and your
baby's adoptive parents through letters and photographs. This cooperative
adoption planning allows all parties to feel good about the decision.
How
are adoptive parents selected? The adoptive families from which
you will choose are all studied and approved by the Wyoming Children's
Society. Before the Society will approve an adoptive family, the
family must meet Society standards for being a safe, secure, and
loving home for a child. The study process addresses such issues
as marriage, parents' health, employment, financial means, education,
religion, and parenting abilities.
Is
this my decision alone?
Birth fathers have rights under the law as well. During the planning
process, we will talk with you about the rights of fathers in an
adoption plan and how to best meet everyone's needs. We will also
explain fully the legal issues pertaining to the adoption plan.
Upon your decision to follow through with the adoption plan for
your child, our staff will be able to provide the legal documents
necessary for you to place your baby with the family you have selected.
You are not required to appear in court.
Is
there financial assistance available? Assistance with medical
costs related to prenatal care and delivery is available, once the
relinquishment is signed.
Does
support stop once the adoption is final? It is natural for birth
parents to undergo a grieving process after their baby is placed
with the adoptive parents. The feelings will be different for each
person-feelings of sadness and even anger may surface. The birth
and subsequent placement of your baby will be an emotional experience.
Talking with others will help you get through this adjustment period.
Many birth mothers feel stronger following this experience which
has given them the opportunity to grow and learn so much about themselves.
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