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For Birthmothers and Their Families  

If I want to consider adoption, where do I start?
If you decide you would like to consider an adoption plan for your child, our staff will help you to design a plan you can feel comfortable with. Although adoption is a selfless and loving choice, it is very difficult. Our staff will support you throughout the entire process, including after the placement is made.

Can I choose my baby's family?
You may choose the adoptive family yourself, and may choose to meet them personally to learn more about them.

You may wish for the adoptive family you have selected to be present for the birth of your child. Following the placement of your baby with the adoptive family, contact may continue between you and your baby's adoptive parents through letters and photographs. This cooperative adoption planning allows all parties to feel good about the decision.

How are adoptive parents selected? The adoptive families from which you will choose are all studied and approved by the Wyoming Children's Society. Before the Society will approve an adoptive family, the family must meet Society standards for being a safe, secure, and loving home for a child. The study process addresses such issues as marriage, parents' health, employment, financial means, education, religion, and parenting abilities.

Is this my decision alone?
Birth fathers have rights under the law as well. During the planning process, we will talk with you about the rights of fathers in an adoption plan and how to best meet everyone's needs. We will also explain fully the legal issues pertaining to the adoption plan. Upon your decision to follow through with the adoption plan for your child, our staff will be able to provide the legal documents necessary for you to place your baby with the family you have selected. You are not required to appear in court.

Is there financial assistance available? Assistance with medical costs related to prenatal care and delivery is available, once the relinquishment is signed.

Does support stop once the adoption is final? It is natural for birth parents to undergo a grieving process after their baby is placed with the adoptive parents. The feelings will be different for each person-feelings of sadness and even anger may surface. The birth and subsequent placement of your baby will be an emotional experience. Talking with others will help you get through this adjustment period. Many birth mothers feel stronger following this experience which has given them the opportunity to grow and learn so much about themselves.



 

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